When just out of a relationship....posted Jul 21st 2010, 5:45PM
Mood: Bitter
Music: Breaking the Habit - Linkin Park
What point is there in remaining friends to you? If there is no point and you merely wish to because you're used to their presence, how do you deal with them? I personally believe having a former boy/girlfriend as a friend is better because they know you well enough to help you deal with things.
My reason for asking is this:
My most recent girlfriend seems to think there is no reason for her to change.
I seem to have problems with people after our relationship is over.
I think there might be something wrong with me if I can't seem to figure it out myself.
I can't seem to figure out where I'm going wrong.
I don't see the point of shooting for a person, to quote one of my favorite monologues, "to aim to be a word that's in between penguin and pinball in the dictionary". You can never stop evolving and trying not to change is like trying to say you've reached a level of perfection. One is never fine as is, we need to change in order to be anything but boring. While I'm all for boring, even I try hard to change at least once a year. I know I'm boring, hell, I know a lot more about my problems than most think I do, but saying that only one person in a relationship is at fault is like saying you can puke rainbows.
You don't. Don't try and say you do.
Other than that, I had an entire freaking book in my mind about this subject but I can't seem to remember half of what it was.
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